I am always astonished by how many women seemed to believe in porn is not real.
It is or it must be acting. After all, I not would do that to myself, so no woman would or could it.
Well, lets be frank here, the market for fake porn is small.
Take a look at the “normal” porn-user, and look deeply at his utter dismissal of women as humans.
See in his eyes, imagine he is your boyfriend, your father, your neighbour, your work mate, your teacher, your bus driver, your vicar and on and on until you include men from everywhere.
Porn is built on real pain, real degradation, real diseases, real fear, and real external and internal injuries.
Much of porn is built for consumers who want real rape.
So, for me, it comes of no surprise that many of the “actresses” in porn are either tricked or unwilling. No surprise that a large supply of those actresses come from other aspects of the sex trade.
Much of porn is cheap porn made bandit style.
Girlfriends, flatmates and wives filmed having aggressive sex, only to find it sold and out in the world without their permission.
And the sick bandit style of filming prostituted women being sexually tortured.
Filming gang-rapes is cheap porn. And the cheapest filming the sexual murders for porn.
These are not extreme, these are real. Real women and girls placed into hell, just for the great male wanking.
Men buy porn because they want to see the real pain in the woman’s face.
The male consumer will not be tricked by pretend pain.
If he want double anal, it must degrade her and give her agony. He wants the penis rammed into her throat until she in terror, a bonus if she is sick or faints.
A popular sport in porn is spreading sperm all over her face.
What the hell does have to do with sex for pleasure – it can only be a power-trip for the male consumer.
Remember porn is first and foremost about getting the male consumer to buy more and more; it has nothing to do with sex for the performers.
Sex is a red herring when place inside commercial porn.
It not sex, it having power over women, making women into dirt for the male consumer to hate and place all his negativity onto.
So as someone who was inside porn scenario, it felt and was sexual torture – porn will renamed it as sex. Named as sex, all the pain and degradation is made invisible.
For as long as the male consumer can wank to destruction of women and girls, the market will increase.
So to the women who choose to view porn as “just acting” – don’t dismiss the pain of those real women.
For to do so is to say they are not real women.