I wish to write this to the constant flow of women who go on and on about how happy they are doing prostitution, for I am so sick of your selfish attitude.
Any woman or girl who is paid for sex, including myself, is part of a system designed on the destruction of the vast majority of its goods. That is to say the foundation of the sex trade is the rape, torture and mental destruction of an underclass named prostitute.
The vast majority of the prostituted are women and girls.
I would never deny that there women in the sex trade who have a good time – but they need see beyond their own experiences, and know they are giving permission for the sexual trade to continue violence and degradation as the norm.
I wonder if it so wonderful working as an escort or in high-class prostitution, why there is so much awareness of keeping women safe.
There are bad clients lists, there are drivers/bouncers in other rooms in case of violence, there are alarms, there are cameras and other forms of in-house security.
Could it be that any john at any time can rape, can batter, can murder any prostitute anywhere. No matter what the prostitute label is – be working on the streets, be in a hotel room, be inside a brothel.
A prostitute is always in danger that a john will turn her into dirt. A prostitute is always there for his porn fantasy, she can never be a real human to him.
If men choose to treat the prostitute with some appearance of respect or even some dignity – he will still be in complete control.
A lot of porn fantasy is showing johns as manipulated and submissive to the prostitute – this is never fully true. For in the end, he owns her and if he chooses to attack her, she has little or no protection.
For the women who continually say they have had no bad experiences with johns – well yippee for you, but that is not the norm in prostitution.
Also, to survive prostitution is vital to lessen the violence and degradation in order to survive.
When you are treated continually as an object to be masturbated into and used as a porn-toy, it completely normal to say it just fine and it your choice.
It may be rape to others, others may see battering, others may named it as sexual torture – but it just your job, and you may say you enjoy it.
I know I said often enough that it was just fun, that I begun to believe I enjoy the hell I was in.
It was not until several years after exiting and completely leaving that life behind, I got PTSD and saw I had been tortured.
I am told that I was just unlucky, got bad clients, worked in isolation, that if was so bad I should be dead.
Well if I just unlucky, then so are the vast majority of prostituted women and girls in the world.
I know of no form of prostitution, where the majority of the prostituted will lucky to escape violence, escape being made into a fuck-toy.
Many are so unlucky they do escape for they lose their lives.
You are part of a system that allows prostituted women and girls to be thrown away on a mass scale. To be fucked until they aged prematurely and then are placed on the trash-heap.
The vast majority of prostituted women and girls live with the constant fear of STD’s and pregnancy – many have multiple abortions.
These are just considered to be hazards of the job.
I am told that condoms are the solutions. Condoms are vital – but can be impossible for many prostituted women and girls to get johns to use.
Tell me how you would persuade a sadistic john to wear a condom. Would you want to lose your life, or be sexually tortured just to get that condom on.
Tell me how does wearing a condom protect the woman or girl from all the non-penetrative sexual violence johns want to do. Does it help when deep-throated till you forget how to breathe. Does it stop the agony of anal rape. Does it stop a john strangling you.
Condoms are vital – but it also there so the john is safe – and ignores the prostitute’s safety from his violence and hate.
Most violence that happens to prostitutes in indoors prostitution is not in isolation. Usually there are managers or other profiteers who supply sadistic sex on demand.
They will place the prostitute in the room with johns who have paid for the right to sexually torture her.
Why would the profiteers intervene as she is raped and tortured, it a joke to imagine they even care..
I was raped in rooms where next door to other prostitutes were being raped. Outside our doors, sat the manager or his cronies.
They were not there for our protection, but to collect the money, and to tell the men if there time was up. They were there to stop us from complaining or leaving – they would tell us lies of how it just a mistake it so violent, he just a bad client, lies that they cared about our welfare.
To survive prostitution, I had to believe I was protected. I had blame myself for being “stupid enough” to get in the way of violence and hate over and over and over.
Christ, I was so unlucky.
Or I was forced to be a fuck-object with no rights and no hope.
I believe that many women who seemed happy in prostitution are surviving by refusing not knowing the violence and hate that surrounds them.
Many exited women are shocked by how often they were raped and they made it nothing, how often they were on the edge of death and they had to forget or make it a joke, how often they got used to pain and humiliation and made it was that it was who they really were.
The shock of knowing the reality of prostitution is terrible – I cannot see how to survive prostitution by knowing it fully.
That is why PTSD is so common and extreme with exited prostituted women.
I never understand why if women make the choice to view prostitution as empowering or liberating, that blinds them to horrific conditions of the majority of prostituted women and girls.
Sure, I see prostitution must a turn-on for you, and when anyone is thinking with a wanking brain, selfishness is all that matters.
I want sex for me, and that’s all that matters. No matter that the sex trade is mass raping and torturing women and girls on a genocidal level. I’m happy.
Do you feel the same about factory farming, or other forms of forced labour. Would you turn away from racism or homophobia. Would you turn your back on an incest or non-prostituted rape victim.
But you would be part of the sex trade that destroying on a scale that is almost impossible to believe.
I really don’t give a damned about your sex life – other people’s sex lives when happy are boring to others.
But if you get paid and go round promoting the happy hooker image – you are betraying the vast majority of the prostituted.
You are a recruiter for the sex trade – so I will lose sympathy for you.
This post is muddled and angry. But I am bored of the sex-positive attitude.