For many it is considered that handing out condoms and doing some chat about drug use is enough to deal with prostitution.
It is not, and never will good enough.
The coffee and condoms brigade keep the prostituted as sub-humans, even if they might do out of kindness or sheer naivety.
But on occasions these so-called kind people are just playing the game to please sex trade profiteers and continue the endless supply to punters.
I want you to look with a clear eye why that is so.
It is so because by just providing condoms, and having brief chats about drugs – it is not about knowing the prostitute as full human.
It is not in-depth for then it might heard that she is not happy in prostitution. It is not in-depth in case the prostitute said or show injuries condoms can do nothing about.
But mostly it is not in-depth, coz then it may be impossible to just patch up the prostitute and send straight back to a fuck-machine.
Keep it on the surface level, then you imagine you have done a good deed, but not have to worry about the prostitute as a full human being.
Also, think more about why think that condoms is some kind of solution to prostitution.
Do you really think that prostitution is just vaginal sex – and all the prostitute has to worry about is HIV and getting pregnant? Do really think that punters pay just to do “normal” sex or missionary position?
Are you really that ignorant?
Boy, I did indoors prostitution for round 13 years, and it very rare that punters pay to fuck my cunt.
To be honest, it was kind of relief if was just did that type of rape – for may be the only thing they do and it is relatively quick.
Most punters pay to do sex that they believed “real” women would not do.
In other words, punters pay to sexually torture and rape the prostitute, usually fuelled by the latest fad in porn.
Prostitutes have their anuses and vaginas ripped apart, prostitutes are choked by strangling and deep-throated, prostitutes have many injuries from being bashed up.
What the does any condom do about that?
Also having multiple violent sex will and does give the prostitutes extreme trauma.
Does a condom protect the mind?
Could it be the condom is more for the punter – so he gets no “nasty” diseases as he make the choice to paid to rape.
And more important, it may keep hidden if he a regular rapist of the prostituted – for he does give his partner any sexual diseases.
Condoms are great for sex trade profiteers – for his goods do have the inconvenient of being ill or getting pregnant.
But the coffee and condom brigade often live in a fantasy world.
They believe that all punters will wear a condom, and a prostitute can with ease get a reluctant punter to put one on.
Now, you try getting a punter who has brought you to put on a condom if he does want to.
Remember by buying a prostitute, the punter will know he owns her, and he can and will rid her of all human rights, including the rights to her own personal safety.
Remember most punter who refuse to put on a condom are highly likely to be mentally, physically and sexually violent to the prostitute.
And remember it of no issue to him whether she gets ill or pregnant – for she is a non-person to the punter.
Now tell me how you would persuade him to put on a condom.
In my experience, my wanting to live is more important that getting the condom on.
What really makes me furious about the coffee and condom brigade is how they run away from indoors prostitution.
They leave those prostituted women and girls to rot.
If they do venture into indoors prostitution, they ask permission from sex trade profiteers to go in.
They give those profiteers the time and space to clear all under-aged prostituted, who prostitutes with visible injuries, all prostitutes who appeared to be trafficked – leaving behind the prostitutes who have learnt to speak the language of the profiteers and can smile when nearly dead.
It is easy to just pass round coffee and condoms in that environment – there be no uncomfortable talk of rape, no questioning of whether there is consent or not – not when all the speech is of choice.
It is a deep betrayal to the millions of the prostituted who living in hell in indoors prostitution.
Coffee and condoms is never enough.