This post is a post I have been wanting to write for at least four years now. It is a post that I very afraid to speak to my truth, afraid to say what I know through experience and grief to be true.
It is that most human abuses can be named and known as torture – but we must never say and mean that porn and prostitution are extreme torture.
It is viewed as extreme and over-emotional to say that the prostituted are tortured.
Well, it is just a fact that the sex trade makes the major part of it profit by mentally, physically and sexually torturing the prostituted.
It is a fact that most punters demand access to prostituted women and girls to torture them with sadistic sex or mental control.
It is a fact that the vast majority of mainstream porn is about damaging and torturing the bodies of the women performers.
It is just a fact that the sex trade is founded on torture, and everything else is seen as secondary.
But we mustn’t speak to those facts, we mustn’t make others uncomfortable by stating in a clear voice that the prostituted have been tortured for at least 3000 years.
We must not say that every form of torture used on political prisoners, people captive in wars – all those endless forms of tortures usually were rehearsed on the bodies of the prostituted class – then spread into “real” victims.
Take waterboarding for instance, or simple pretending to drown someone. That is common practice in indoors prostitution and porn.
But the prostituted are not made to imagine they drowning, there must always be more to make it sexual.
The prostituted will have their heads put into toilets and be anally raped. The prostituted are raped as drowning in a bath.
The prostituted class are used lab rats to see how far you can torture without killing her.
It is made into a game, a leisure experience for sadistic men – never taken seriously as torture.
For it to be framed as torture, the victim must be considered to be fully human – and the prostituted are classed as sub-humans, so it cannot be tortured.
Now don’t turn away – especially all you who will read Amnesty International, will look at photos and words about the many war crimes, will read of gang-rape outside of the sex trade – I will say a few and common practices to the prostituted that are not allowed to named as torture.
I write coz to be always silent is to give the sex trade too much power to make exited women have no voice. I do it from the memory of the prostituted women and girls who could live inside torture any more – I do in deep respect and honour to them.
It is very normal to be gang-raped in all aspects of the sex trade – it is used as punishment, it is used to get extra cash, it is used to keep the prostituted woman or girl in her place, it is used to silence her voice.
I lost count of how many times I was gang-raped – not because it a particular high amount – somewhere three to twelve different time. No I lost count coz I lost hope that it would ever end.
Gang-rape is made so normal for far too many of the prostituted – and it is made normal because the vast majority of society turns a blind eye to it happening.
When soldiers made the choice to gang-rape citizens or prisoners it is considered horrific and a shame on the country the soldiers come from.
If girls are gang-rape by boys in their neighbourhood – newspapers, radio and TV have debates what is wrong with our society that young people can be so callous.
But where is the concern as sex trade profiteers sell the prostituted to punters to be gang-raped? Is there anyone smashing the doors of the flats, brothels, saunas, hotels rooms or clubs where the prostituted are routinely gang-raped?
No, it is decided – decided without speaking to the prostituted or to exited women – that it is the choice of the prostituted to be gang-raped, and so then it become very easy to walk away.
Torture is everywhere in the sex trade.
Punters will torture the prostituted, copying every mainstream or hard-core porn into her body.
Women are strung up from light fittings; are anally raped pushed into a wall with her legs; have any household objects forced into hole in her body; have penis/penises forced so far down her throat she will suffocated; have matches and cigarettes branded into them; are thrown out of moving cars; have their vaginas ripped by teeth or pull out with hands; are fisted until she bleed often anally.
Ok – you want to turn away, but as you are turning away, real women and girls are living that reality in the name of the sex trade.
Worse, that is just a very tiny set of examples of the normal torturing that is the sex trade.
Let me say – I am sick and very bored with so many of the Left and feminism turning away from that common torturing of the prostituted – you are abandoning the prostituted class for your delicate feelings.
I have enough of tolling the line, of not saying the truth of what men do the prostituted class – and pretending it wasn’t that bad.
It was horrific – and most exited women know it was only luck that we survived.
I want to say this if you are turning away – look to yourself why you refuse to confront the reality of what is happening to the prostituted.
Do you think that just because money or exchange of goods is made that means the prostitute must have consented?
If you think about all I have briefly described as torture – if you think it was your body, your body would have real pain, you would feel real terror, you would not be able to stop it, and you would not know if it will kill you or not.
If it was your body, or the body of a woman or girl that you love – you would know there was no consent, you would say loud and clear that it was torture.
So why do you want and need so much to believe that the prostituted must have consented to having their bodies and minds destroyed. Is the money or exchange of goods some kind of magic wand that make all sadism vanish?
In the end, if you refuse to say what done to the prostituted is torture and a mass abuse of human rights – you may as be honest and say you don’t care.
You don’t care that the sex trade is built on torture – means you cannot have access to porn without that knowledge, you cannot buy prostitutes without wondering.
Well tough – your selfish desire to have the sex trade – does not make me pity you or even care.
I care that millions of the prostituted class are being tortured and destroyed as you turn away.