Ok this post is written from a place of utter disbelief and frustration.
All around me, all around all exited women – there is the constant insistence that we should at least try to understand punters.
We can be angry with them but not to the point of pure fury; we can dislike some of them but always some proviso that we know not all punters are bad; we can say there is violence, only if we also some men were gentlemen.
We must not say that all punters are the same, that they all have the same mind-set and they all have a massive sense of entitlement.
We must always be reasonable, we must be able to listen endlessly to the excuses made for punters.
To be other is to be told we are too emotional, we must hate all men, we are tainted by our individual bad experiences – we do not see or know the full pictures of what makes a punter.
Why not say what you really think – exited women are too dumb or too damaged to know their own realities.
I have enough of being told to be reasonable about punters – when it very rare that punters are ever reasonable to the prostituted.
The most important thing that must be stated over and over and over – it is impossible to be a punter and to be a decent human being.
It is impossible to make the choice to buy the prostituted for no other reason than your selfish sexual kicks and still a good person.
I do not care how gentle you are with the prostitute; I do not care if you just talk or watch; I do not care if you decide it was peer pressure made you buy a prostitute; I do not care if you lonely, ugly or disabled; I do not care that you are on holiday; I do not care you in a stag do; I do not care it is work pressure; I do not care that you say it is an one-off.
There is never a good enough excuse for buying and owning a prostitute.
I bet many punters are ant-slavery, hate the concept of trafficking, despise men who rape or batter the non-prostituted women and girls, and know they are always the good men.
Many punters who do not think twice of poring their porn-dreams into the living bodies of the prostituted – will hate sexual torturing to political prisoners and may even fight to end animal torture.
It cannot be torture with the prostitute – it just buying and consuming of goods.
It must always be known and remembered – the moment any punter make the choice to buy a prostitute, he has firmly in his mind she is goods and her humanity does not exist.
That is why the vast majority of punters are violent – and usually it is extreme violence.
The violence comes from every angle, the violence is highly predictable and without any sense of escape.
The violence is mental, physical, spiritual and sexual – leaving most of prostituted as empty shells.
There is no such thing as a non-violent punter – just sometimes the violence is bearable.
But many of so-called gentle or decent punters eat away at the soul and mind of the prostitute.
Whilst a prostitute know at any time any punter can use extreme violence on her – there can no safe place for any prostitute, there can be no part of the sex trade that can be made safe for any prostitute.
That is why we must stop focusing on the individual choices and experiences of the prostituted – and look deeper at the punters, and force them to take full responsibility for making the prostituted sub-human.
For no man need to buy another human for his sexual greed, or to put in his violent porn fantasies into a living body.
Stop looking for excuses for punters – and stand for the human rights and dignity of the prostituted class.
Stop making punters the invisible men.