I have been away, away for words used in a casual manner are eating me into wanting to die.
Sticks and stones may hurt you, but words do no harm.
That is just bullshit, and much of the language I will describe is invented or used by the sex trade to control and silence the prostituted, whether exited or still inside the sex trade.
The language that sends daggers into my soul – I will named it as Pimp Language which is used by punters, sex trade profiteers, academics, the mainstream media and liberal feminists – as well men on the Left, men on the Right and Liberal men.
It is a language invented over centuries – though words may change, the meaning of control and silencing has always been the same.
For instance the idea of the sex worker is just an re-invention of the courtesan which is just a re-invention of temple whore.
All those concepts are invented to hide male violence and the prostituted are made into throwaway sub-human goods.
The sex worker/courtesan/temple whore are terms that pretend there can a semblance of choice and empowerment for the prostituted.
This lie is spread into all media, all gossip, all means of communication until it is made impossible that any “real” violence can put into the prostituted.
The temple whore is painted as a goddess, or at the least supernatural.
This is held by the means that is norm of the sex trade in all times, all cultures and is the founding stones that makes the sex trade not crumble.
To call a temple whore supernatural is too convenient – as it always means she feels no human pain, has no desire to leave and can an endless for thousands of men to masturbate into.
She becomes the courtesan, who is allow small amounts of power intelligence as long she always available as a fuck-doll that will be thrown away when she is old or just boring for men.
She becomes the sex worker, who is told she is free and empowered – only to find men will and can be violent her whenever he want, for she is always the whore so owned by men.
It is a system that I named the Alice Through the Looking-Glass Approach – that is a constant brainwashing that bad is good, and bad is the only way to live – a world where sadism is call fun, and all escape is blocked.
To keep the prostituted under the control of sex trade profiteers, it is vital to make all the outside world seemed to there to destroy, or at the minimum unattainable.
Over 4000 years the sex trade profiteers have perfected ways of brainwashing, lying and keeping hidden all outside knowledge from the prostituted class.
This includes giving the prostituted no language expect the language of their oppressors.
So, never say to those of us who somehow manage to survive and exit the sex trade – that it is only words, words don’t.
No if you call yourself an ally for abolition, then learn to shut up and listen hard as we speak to what language and individual word mean to us.
Let me choose some words, some expressions that should either used with great care, or never used when speaking about the conditions of the sex trade.
I choose to start with that word that can bring bile to my throat – “choice” which is often placed like sisters with “empowerment”.
How can the Left and Liberals be so naive or determined not to want to know, that those words were stolen by the sex trade profiteers, and used to manipulate that prostitution is somehow Leftist, is about giving freedom and strength to the prostituted – heck it just a job ain’t it.
Choice is a lovely concept, and for many things it can be wonderful – you choose what music you love, you can choose your friends, you can choose where to have a holiday.
Choice is also a terrible delusion, the language of choice is used to keep the oppressed trapped and silences all questioning of why they are being oppressed.
This is a classic tool of all forms of long-term oppression – and has part of the structure of the sex trade.
To make the prostituted think and believe that it was her free choice to be in the sex trade – is a powerful tool to silence and keep her as a sub-human.
The vast majority if not all of the prostituted are in conditions where her individual choices have no relevance.
Whether the prostitute enter freely or by force, is of little relevance to the punters or sex trade profiteers.
Once you become classed as a prostitute, your individual choices are tossed away – it is impossible to have access to choice, if you are made sub-human sexual goods.
The prostituted are made sub-human – so there is no real violence done to them, no violence for it is decided that the prostituted have no human emotions like hurt, fear or deep grief.
How dare that be named as empowerment.
What is so empowering about being fuck-holes for any and all men?
What is so empowering about being moved from street to street, from street prostitution into a brothel, from city to city, from escorting to inside porn, from country to country, from being a victim prostitute when 14 to an empowered whore at aged 17?
I am so hurting – pain is a bit much.
Bloody think before you speak – I am so sick of your language.