I am writing to and about the punters who believe their power, status and money makes them invincible.
This blog post was pushed into my brain by the reports about Charlie Sheen and his latest shaming of the prostituted.
Charlie Sheen is just one of thousands if not millions, of rich entitled men who consume the prostituted in order to torture them
Yes, I name their actions as torture, their torturing makes these punters criminals pure and simple.
Only we make the choice to place rich men in all cultures above the law.
We choice to ignore or minimise rich men in the entertainment business who buy the prostituted in order to have sadistic sex.
We excuse the violence against prostituted women and girls used in sexual tourism by rich men from many backgrounds.
We shut our eyes to businessmen consuming the prostituted as a leisure activity.
We make trivial when sportsmen are violent to the prostituted.
We have made a culture where all rich men have the entitlement to used the prostituted as slaves.
Charlie Sheen was surrounded by that culture – a culture that refuses to say no to men like him.
So, we cannot be shocked at the sadist behaviour of these punters – instead of acting against their entitlement, we have made a society that has short term pangs of guilt – but in the long term, looks away.
Let me speak to my and other’s experience of being inside that entitlement.
I cannot know all, only what my body knows, only what exited women speak to ourselves, and only through brave prostituted who speak out in public.
I know enough about rich punters – to know those men have no fear of arrest, see no human in the prostituted, and have the mind-set of de Sade that the prostituted are his to kill or torture any time and in any place.
From personal experience, I know that the rich punters that consumed me never saw me, never wanted to know I was human – I was goods they used and tossed back into the sewer.
These were the punters that pay to torture me physically, mentally and sexually.
These were the punters who laugh about killing me, and knowing they could make my death into nothing.
These were the punters who offer travels as long as I did not care I must stay their sex slave, or care to be exchange as sexual goods to promote his career.
These were the punters who wore prostitutes like trophies – only to batter, rape and torture the prostitute when away from the public gaze.
Charlie Sheen was and is one of those punters – he is very typical.
We must stop making status and power making male violence invisible.
Please think what it is to prostituted with a rich punter who has no fear of punishment, no interest in the mental/physical welfare of you, and a punter who can buy his way out of all troubles.
Just imagine, being in a hotel room with that punter.
Would you feel empowered, in control – or would become a robot hoping not to be too badly hurt this time?
It is shut away in hotels rooms, in the properties of rich punters, on their boats and planes, and inside private clubs – sadism is all round us, but money makes it invisible.
I find it hard to write to and about these punters – for though they are my past – I still have the terror they put in me, still feel sick as my body knows their tortures they left as my legacy.
All I know is I have a deep hatred to rich entitled punters.
These are men who have become leaders, men who do family entertainment, men who make laws to control us, men who perform sports that I love, men who create music that relaxes me, men who are artists, men who work for human rights agencies and so many other powerful men.
These are punters that the prostituted are afraid to name, for they fear disbelief or a general shutting downs of their witnessing.
But we must speak out – say all ways that men get power, status and become the rich – is used as a weapon against the prostituted.
Charlie Sheen is just the tip of massive iceberg.