I have try to do debates with the pro-sex trade lobby, but they just pour out lies and emotional control – so I will damage my growth by playing their games.
In this post, I lay down a few of the many bear-traps the sex trade lobby place in the way of exited women being seen and heard.
I have been very ill, but I will try to be as clear as possible.
The most important thing to know about the sex trade/work lobby is they are the public voices of sex trade profiteers and punters – they see no human in the prostituted.
Rather, their image of all of the prostituted is that we are goods that they owned and control.
They see exited women as their property that has escaped- we should either be still be be trapped in the sex trade, too mentally ill to speak out or dead.
So there is no debate going on, just a constant reminder that the prostituted have no rights, and can never achieve the goal of being viewed as human.
That is the background noise to all so-called debates exited women and the sex trade lobby.
One tactic that is a constant is that the sex trade will consciously triggered the exited women in a public space, but always in a way to make them look good and that she is over-emotional, mentally ill or unable to understand outside her narrow history.
This is gas-lighting at it most powerful, this is the mind-set of a pimp or a sadist punter.
They used the fact that exited women have extreme trauma, fragmented memory, and experiences that have made unspeakable to their advantage.
With cold hearts, the sex trade lobby will act rational and full of facts, but they speak with poisoned lies.
Everything they say is to make male violence to the prostituted invisible and unimportant.
That is why they claim is only stigma, poverty and trafficking that may be of some issue.
All these can make the punters disappear or be stripped of responsibility for his own choices.
Too often, the sex trade speak to the stigma, saying stigma as a word that covers all harms done to the prostituted, all lack of justice.
They say it the police that is the greatest fear of the prostituted – really, not serial raping by punters, not battery by pimps or punters, not being more violent aspects of the sex trade, not being made to disappear.
The police are a minor problem compare the constant genocide of the prostituted by punters and sex trade profiteers.
The making invisible the punter’violence is the underlying purpose of the sex trade lobby, for to call it work, choice, fantasy, empowerment and game-playing is the langange of making the prostituted into sub-human sexual goods.
It is the language of work that is used in our public spaces, with the false claims it no worse or better than being a miner.
Prostitution is never just another job, it not a free exchange.
Protitution is to have your body controlled, used, and trashed by any man who make the choice to be a punter.
I want to look at the lies said about choices for the prostituted – note there no space is their debates to speak to the choices of the punters.
They speak as if the only strong push into the sex trade is poverty – not previous abuse, not peer pressure, not deep self-hate, not racism, not not not anything that does fit their neat boxes.
By focusing just on poverty, there is little or no push for radical change, just some tinkering at the work/pay conditions.
More important, this endless focus on the push only being poverty is a deep betrayal and abandonment of the many prostituted who had multiple pushes into the sex trade.
I am getting sick again, could write forever, but please do not believe the lies.