I want to write to five myths about prostitution that really piss me off.
These the myths that make the punters invisible, usually by focusing the blame on the prostituted and making the punters into monsters or victims.
So in five myths I focus on the men who make the choice to consume and throw away the prostituted.
1. Only a minority of men consumed the prostituted.
This myth makes no mathematical sense.
Think of long-term prostituted women.
Think that most long-term women are prostituted for at least seven years, and even if they only work part-term are consumed at the minimum of eight to hundreds of times by punters each year.
Most punters are one-time users of an individual prostituted, many prostituted women are gang-raped, or in one night have many punters lined up to consume her.
So there is at the very minimum round ten punters to every prostituted women.
That is large amount of men choosing to consume the prostituted.
2. Prostituted stops real women being raped or tortured.
This is sick and inhuman.
This is solid proof that our society has decided that the prostituted are sub-human.
The prostituted as a class are not human enough to know pain of being serially raped.
The prostituted as a class are not human enough to be victims of all forms of torturing.
No, the prostituted are made into sexual goods whose only duty is to save real women from men’s aggression and hate.
The prostituted have no right to complain, to scream out of rage and agony, no right to simple human right to live in safety.
Well, listen to exited women and hear our roaring for justice, screaming for dignity and whispering we refuse to the scapegoat for male violence.
We are lionnesses, not sacrificial lambs.
3. Prostitution is a service for lonely/disable/ugly men.
All men need to know and fully understand that are entitled to buy another human for his orgasm.
Sex is not human right, it may be a want or a desire, but no man loses his penis just because he cannot have constant access to fucking.
I am yet to see of penises going green and dropping off, coz there are no prostituted women nearby to be consumed.
As for the concept that the prostituted are needed to service disabled men, this is insulting to the disabled, and a violation of the human rights of the prostituted.
This implys that disabled men cannot formed relationships or find ways to discover sexual desire without consuming another oppressed class.
Many disabled campaigners are deeply offended and angered by this way making them into sub-human.
It is wrong to manipulate the disabled to oppress the prostituted.
4. Punters are not aware of the harm that they create.
No man accidentally consumed the prostituted, it usually pre-planned and always a conscious act.
Whether the punters has used the net to book an escort, whether he is in brothel on a stag-do treat, cruising for a street prostituted woman, going into flats or hotel rooms with access guarded by pimps, or just imaging he just picking a prostitute on a wimp – this is always a conscious act, that all punters can refuse to be part of.
By making the conscious choice to consume the prostituted, all punters have made the choice to be a rapist, to create violence on the bodies and minds of the prostituted.
He is the problem, not the solution.
There no such person as the good punter, all punters are criminals and capable of severe hate and violence.
5. Punters are not that violent.
No, the opposite is the truth – it is rare that punters are non- violent, almost down to less than 5% that do not rape or torture the prostituted.
Punters do not consume the prostituted to do missionary positions, to treat the prostituted with respect or dignity.
Most punters want the prostituted for he want a living porn-doll, who can do everything his mind knows he would to real women.
Torture is normal in all aspects of prostitution, all porn is torture.
All that prostitution is having a living prostitute having every cell of her mind and body drowned by the punter’s porn-fuelled fantasises.
There no safe space or access to self-respect the prostituted in that environment – just the raw instinct to keep breathing, the closure of the mind to the reality of torture being called a work risk,
The prostituted lives with trauma piling up in her body with no release, only release comes with being lucky enough to exit with extreme PTSD – or the release of a mental breakdown or death.
But punters can as sadist as they like with no consequences, they are made invisible and without any responsibility for the harms that they do.
We must stopped thinking that punters are Richard Gere, and known they are sadist and calculated criminals.
How can exited women ever trust a society that thinks punters are victims of manipulated prostituted women?
Punters are just very ordinary men who believed they are entitled to rape and torture women and girls who they have decided have no access to justice and dignity.
Remember there is nothing natural about the institution of prostitution -it was invented by men as place male violence and hate can be contained and hidden.