I have been away from my blog, coz I have been facing the grief inside me.
I have been away staying as still as possible, allowing in me emotions to grow after the deadness of being prostituted.
It is hard to stop and grieve when all around the language of pimps dominate.
It is spoken in all the media, it is inside most TV dramas or films, it is heard when resting in coffee shops or just walking down the street.
Pimp language has come to be the acceptable language to speak by most of the liberal/leftist culture, which sadly includes too feminists as well.
It is a language that poisons all those who are lucky enough to survive the sex trade and strive to build real freedom for all the prostituted.
This has become the pc way to speech of all inside the sex trade.
It is spoken without thinking, it is spoken as if it the only good way to describe the prostituted.
It is spoken sending daggers into the hearts of all survivors of the sex trade, it is spoken and gags all our freedoms and ability to speak above pimp speech.
Sex work/worker is a term that was formed in New York by pimps in an attempt to say what they did was not just legitimate, but also harm-free.
It was formed to make all male violence invisible, to make all forms of profiteer’s control invisible, to make it that punters are just misunderstood or all gentlemen.
Sex work/worker is the language of hate and slavery.
But the Left and many liberal feminists took the terms and claim them as their own.
To do that they forget or choose to not remember it is terms owned by pimps.
Instead they make the false claim to be in sex work is to build an environment of safety for the prostituted class.
But this is huge and horrible lie.
When liberal feminists and the Left imagine a sex worker – it is always the old image of the Happy Hooker or courtesan, that age-old male fantasy that hides all male violence and hides the conditions of the prostituted class.
It is the image/fantasy of a middle-class or upper-class adult prostitute who enjoys her life.
It is the image/fantasy that is not just indoors prostitution, but always highly paid, always doing any sexual act with great joy.
It is the image/fantasy that these prostitutes just love doing sexual act or having sexual acts done to them, that good women will not do.
It is an image/fantasy that is allowing violence in indoors prostitution to happen all the time everywhere – but the Left and liberal feminists can turn their backs on it, imagining it is just a chosen lifestyle.
The vile language of sex work/worker reaches it peak when everywhere there – under aged sex workers, migrant sex workers, survival sex work and so many other terms of hate.
It is the language that George Orwell would recognise.
I cannot write in full coz grief is all round me.